docs: deprecate callbacks on useQuery (#5353)

* docs: deprecate callbacks on useQuery

* docs: recommend the eslint plugin on installation page

Author: TkDodo

docs/react/installation.md

@@ -47,3 +47,15 @@ opera >= 53
 ```
 
 > Depending on your environment, you might need to add polyfills. If you want to support older browsers, you need to transpile the library from `node_modules` yourselves.
+
+### Recommendations
+
+It is recommended to also use our [ESLint Plugin Query](./eslint/eslint-plugin-query) to help you catch bugs and inconsistencies while you code. You can install it via:
+
+```bash
+$ npm i -D @tanstack/eslint-plugin-query
+# or
+$ pnpm add -D @tanstack/eslint-plugin-query
+# or
+$ yarn add -D @tanstack/eslint-plugin-query
+```

docs/react/reference/useQuery.md

@@ -137,12 +137,15 @@ const {
   - If set to `"all"`, the component will opt-out of smart tracking and re-render whenever a query is updated.
   - By default, access to properties will be tracked, and the component will only re-render when one of the tracked properties change.
 - `onSuccess: (data: TData) => void`
+  - **Deprecated** - this callback will be removed in the next major version
   - Optional
   - This function will fire any time the query successfully fetches new data.
 - `onError: (error: TError) => void`
+  - **Deprecated** - this callback will be removed in the next major version
   - Optional
   - This function will fire if the query encounters an error and will be passed the error.
 - `onSettled: (data?: TData, error?: TError) => void`
+- **Deprecated** - this callback will be removed in the next major version
   - Optional
   - This function will fire any time the query is either successfully fetched or errors and be passed either the data or error.
 - `select: (data: TData) => unknown`